Ive said it like 600 times Internet love is a great fantasy but not real...Knowing someone near you is hard enough. Please BeCareful know that People will never show their defects wilingly thats something you get when you spend Quality time as in face to face. Keep in mind that in this world we are Immitating or creating a character. That we all have Real lives to deal with and real family members and that sometimes what you see online isnt always what you will get. Be Careful with sob stories I know this sounds mean but its hard to believe that someone that has suffered so much or is suffering so much cna be online all the time talking to hundreds of peopole. When someone usually has a past they tend to hide it, its not easy to talk about what has gone wrong in your life...so I find it hard to beleive that someoen can sit at a computer and type it all down for others to read. Yes we see cases that are worthy but when its too much and you start to think WOW This person deserves this and that then you have to start wondering "Is it all true."
Relationships are hard when you live together, each day you discover soemthing new about the person. Heck even when you are dating you will always put your best out there...MEn will pick up after themselves and even wash the dishes. Its not till you have been living together for a while that you notice that he leaves his socks next to the couch and so on. Women will wear extensions or pushup bras...there is a spanish joke that says on the honeymoon the husband was waiting for his lovely bride...she removes her makeup, her heels, her nails, her wig, her pushup bra, her corset (Belly flops out) and her prostetic leg....what is he left with? The point is that even when we meet someone in person we still have sooo much to discover about them and even then its possible to be lied to.
Intenert makes it easy for people to lie to you, there are people out their who fancy themselves "Writers" and will try to use you to see how their story would work out. Some are just lonely or depressed and will make up a new self to the point that they actually believe it.
ENJOY The internet, Enjoy RP have fun, be honest, be creative and be cool but dont fall into any traps.
Simple Internet Rules: Dont ever give out your address, or personal information.
Dont believe all the pics you see...some can be true some can be 20 years old or photoshoped.
Above ALL else dont be the one that lies....If you RP Clearly state it!
Thanks to those who follow me! you make it easier for me to deal with RL and even the drama its worth it sometimes.
Monday, July 12, 2010
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